FriendshipsFind Your People
Meet women who are looking for genuine friendship, community, and connection—not just another swipe.
There's More to Lesbian Community Than Dating.
A place to build friendships, strengthen relationships, grow personally, and actually do life together.
RLO is a place to build friendships, strengthen relationships, grow personally, and actually do life together.
Friendships
EventsExperience More
From brunch and dinners to activities and local gatherings, find reasons to get out, connect, and make memories.
RelationshipsBuild Healthier Connections
Access conversations, resources, workshops, and support designed around healthier lesbian relationships.
Personal GrowthGrow With Community
Explore coaching, support, wellness resources, and conversations that help you build a healthier relationship with yourself and others.
💖 Find your people
Whatever you're into — there are women here for that.
Tap an interest to meet members who share it, join the conversations, and find your corner of the community.
BrunchAug9
Sunday Brunch & Mimosas
Sun, Aug 9
Huntington Beach
HikingAug16
Forest Hills Hiking Meetup
Sun, Aug 16
Laguna Beach
Book ClubAug23
Lesbian Romance Book Club
Sun, Aug 23
Newport Beach
Coffee MeetupAug30
New Member Coffee & Welcome
Sun, Aug 30
Costa Mesa
WellnessSep6
Sunset Yoga & Wellness
Sun, Sep 6
Laguna Beach
Happy HourSep13
Happy Hour Networking Mixer
Sun, Sep 13
Newport Beach
BrunchAug9
Sunday Brunch & Mimosas
Sun, Aug 9
Huntington Beach
HikingAug16
Forest Hills Hiking Meetup
Sun, Aug 16
Laguna Beach
Book ClubAug23
Lesbian Romance Book Club
Sun, Aug 23
Newport Beach
Coffee MeetupAug30
New Member Coffee & Welcome
Sun, Aug 30
Costa Mesa
WellnessSep6
Sunset Yoga & Wellness
Sun, Sep 6
Laguna Beach
Happy HourSep13
Happy Hour Networking Mixer
Sun, Sep 13
Newport Beach
👯 Meet women like you
Your next favorite people are already inside.
💬 The group chat you've been looking for
Real talk, real support, zero algorithm.
Conversations, connection requests, event invites, and the kind of encouragement that actually shows up.
Jordan
Austin, TX
“OMG just got home from the brunch — you all are the BEST. Already texting the group chat. Next hike is on me 🌸”
24 8
Priya
Seattle, WA
sent you a connection request
Wants to connect · Travel & Adventure
Accept request
Rae
Denver, CO
“Day 3 of the boundaries workshop and I already feel like a new person. Thank you for holding space for us 💜”
41 12
🌟 Real talk from real members
What members are saying
Maya R.
@mayaglow · Portland, OR
“I found my people here. Real, lasting friendships and the tools to love better. 💕”
128 18
Jordan T.
@jordanbloom · Austin, TX
“After my breakup, RLO coaching helped me heal. The community held me the whole way. 🌈”
96 18
Priya S.
@priyasea · Seattle, WA
“I came for one brunch. I stayed for the friendships that changed my life. 🦋”
211 18
🌿 Wellness & coaching
Support for every relationship in your life.
Friendships, couples, family, and self — empowering (never clinical) coaching that helps you grow.
Secure intake process Confidential & caring Flexible scheduling
