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Long-Distance Relationships

Long-distance success stories?

My partner and I are about to go long-distance for a year due to work. I'd love to hear from couples who made it through. What kept you connected?

by Alex M.

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New here! Excited to meet you all

Hi everyone! I just joined RLO and I'm so excited to be part of this community. I'm based in the Pacific Northwest and I'm looking for friendships and community connections. I love hiking, books, and good coffee. What should I check out first?

by Sam R.

Friendship

Building friendships as an adult is hard

Does anyone else find it harder to make close friends in your 30s than it was in your 20s? Would love to hear how others have built their community.

by Taylor B.

Dating

How do you communicate your needs early in dating?

I always struggle with bringing up my needs in the first few dates without coming across as intense. How do you all approach this? I'd love to hear what's worked for you.

by Jordan K.

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