Support for the Woman, the Relationship, and the Life You're Building
RLO connects lesbian and queer women with affirming coaching, relationship support, counseling, and community-centered wellness resources.
Whether you are strengthening your relationship, healing after heartbreak, navigating identity, or rebuilding confidence, you deserve support that understands your experience.
Support for the Woman, the Relationship, and the Life You're Building
RLO connects lesbian and queer women with affirming coaching, relationship support, counseling, and community-centered wellness resources.
Whether you are strengthening your relationship, healing after heartbreak, navigating identity, or rebuilding confidence, you deserve support that understands your experience.
Thousands of women deserve support that understands their experience.
4.9/5
Average satisfaction
once available
500+
Coaching sessions completed
10,000+
Community members
200+
Events hosted
50
States served (coaching)
Figures shown are illustrative placeholders pending verified reporting.
Choose your coaching membership
Enroll in the membership that fits your life. After you join, RLO matches you with the best-fit coach based on availability, specialty, and your goals — no browsing required.
Individual Coaching Membership
Private 1:1 coaching with ongoing accountability, priority booking, and wellness-tracker integration.
Per-session recurring · you choose the billing frequency
Billing frequency
$99 charged every week · 1 session per cycle
Recurring until canceled · next charge date shown at checkout
- One private coaching session per cycle
- Ongoing accountability
- Priority booking
- Wellness Tracker integration
- Direct messaging with your assigned coach
- Personalized resource recommendations
- Discounted access to workshops & special programs
Secure checkout · cancel anytime from your dashboard
Couples Coaching Membership
Structured support for couples who want healthier communication, stronger boundaries, and deeper trust.
Per-session recurring · you choose the billing frequency
Billing frequency
$150 charged every week · 1 session per cycle
Recurring until canceled · next charge date shown at checkout
- One private couples coaching session per cycle
- Relationship worksheets
- Communication exercises
- Priority scheduling
- Assigned relationship coach
- Personalized relationship resources
- Ongoing accountability between sessions
Secure checkout · cancel anytime from your dashboard
Group Coaching Membership
Live group coaching with guided discussions, a monthly workbook, and community accountability.
Per-session recurring · you choose the billing frequency
Billing frequency
$85 charged every 2 weeks · 1 session per cycle
Recurring until canceled · next charge date shown at checkout
- One live group coaching session per cycle
- Guided topic-based discussions
- Community accountability
- Monthly workbook & exercises
- Access to the Group Coaching calendar
- Supportive peer learning environment
Secure checkout · cancel anytime from your dashboard
Choose Your Support Path
Three distinct ways to be supported — each with a clear scope and intent.
Coaching
Forward-focused support designed to help you strengthen boundaries, improve relationships, make confident decisions, and create meaningful change.
Best for
- Dating and relationship patterns
- Communication and boundaries
- Confidence and self-worth
- Personal growth and accountability
- Life transitions
- Breakup recovery
- Leadership and identity development
Coaching focuses on growth, strategy, action, and personal development.
Counseling
Confidential mental health support with an appropriately licensed professional for emotional distress, trauma, anxiety, grief, relationship challenges, and deeper healing.
Best for
- Anxiety and emotional distress
- Trauma and difficult past experiences
- Depression or prolonged sadness
- Grief and loss
- Relationship and family concerns
- Identity-related stress
- Emotional regulation
- Clinical mental health support
Counseling may only be provided by licensed professionals who are authorized to serve the client's location.
Community Support
Guided circles, workshops, peer conversations, and wellness experiences for women who want connection alongside personal growth.
Best for
- Building meaningful friendships
- Finding women with shared experiences
- Group discussions
- Educational workshops
- Wellness accountability
- Relationship and personal-growth topics
Community support is educational and connection-based. It is not a substitute for mental health treatment.
Lesbian-Affirming Counseling
Receive confidential support from a licensed mental health professional who understands the importance of identity-affirming, culturally responsive care.
Individual Counseling
Support for anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, identity concerns, emotional regulation, and major life transitions.
Couples Counseling
Clinical relationship support for communication breakdowns, recurring conflict, trust concerns, emotional disconnection, and relationship distress.
Family Counseling
Support for family conflict, coming-out experiences, acceptance concerns, changing family roles, and healthier communication.
Ready to talk with a counselor?
Complete a brief consultation request and we'll help connect you with a licensed provider who can serve your state.
Availability, pricing, insurance participation, and eligibility may vary by provider and client location.
What Would You Like Support With?
Choose a topic and we'll show you the kinds of support available — no guessing required.
Not Sure Which Type of Support You Need?
Coaching and counseling are different. Here's the short version.
Coaching
Counseling
Support You Can Trust
LGBTQ+ and lesbian-affirming care
Support that honors your identity and lived experience.
Clear professional boundaries
Distinct roles for coaching and clinical counseling.
Confidential, respectful communication
Your privacy is treated with care at every step.
Credential verification for counselors
Licensed professionals authorized to serve your state.
Transparent pricing
Clear session costs before you book — no surprises.
Secure scheduling and payment
Protected booking and payment when you're ready.
No judgment, pressure, or one-size-fits-all advice
Support shaped around your goals and circumstances.
Meet Our Providers
Our coaching and counseling team is being carefully vetted.
Provider profiles — including credentials, state licenses, specialties, session formats, and availability — will appear here as each professional is onboarded and verified.
RLO is not an emergency or crisis-response service. If you are in immediate danger or experiencing a mental health emergency, contact emergency services or an appropriate crisis resource in your area.
Frequently asked questions
Answers to common questions about RLO coaching, counseling, and community support.